Nice guys dating forum
I agree with all of it and by the way these are also all the very same reasons why men are attracted to psychos, bitches and crack/coke whores (yeah you guys know who you are).God only know we have have years worth of threads to back up this behavior.And you know by now that we LOVE truly sharp women around here. Despite the obvious desperation involved here, arguably the most unattractive aspect of all this to a woman is how BORING it is. So the thought process is geared toward letting them make decisions and letting them get what they want. There is no more blatant display of viewing a woman as a purely sexual object than to go overboard being "nice". Guys, take this test for yourself: Do you open doors for ALL women, or only for the ones who look good. Men without pressing sexual needs cause women to feel more comfortable in their presence. A Good Man has paid attention and learned what makes the woman tick. If a man can inspire a woman to feel valuable OR special he's on the right track, but getting both right is an unbeatable combination. This means the man is EVALUATING the woman he is with rather than attempting to impress her.
Either you pony up with the cash, or settle for some schlub with a daddy complex.
I can't imagine how a site geared toward the old/young combo would attract anyone other than pervs and golddiggers.
OP, why not try your luck on a "normal" dating site and include your preference in your profile?
Make no mistake, it's not necessarily the I/Js (Idiot/Jerks) who get women -- ESPECIALLY the highest echelon of women.
Being "good" or "bad" in and of itself is NOT the key, despite what you may have heard elsewhere.